I am happy with myself and my life; I am not looking to change my life or your life, I am looking for that Special someone who will enhance both our lives, as I will enhance yours. I am kind hearted, open and honest (Yes, I know hard to believe in a man…LOL) but there are some of us out there that still are!!!......I enjoy life to the full, with all the usual pursuits, like eating out, dancing, music, cinema, pubs, theatre, going to museums, travelling near and far, laughing until you cry, walking along the beach on a cold or hot day talking about everything and nothing. I will answer every message I get, even if it is with a polite no "Thank you" because I do believe that good manners should be shown to everyone. I am neither a serial dater, nor a pervert or cross dresser nor am I after internet sex or after a one night stand, as this would seem to appear in a lot of profiles I have read, I don't just judge people on their photo because at the end of the day physical looks fade in the end, its about connecting with the person and that only happens by talking to each other. My build is stocky which I know does not appeal to everyone, but there’s a lot more to me than just my size. I am going to the gym everyday on my way home from work and my size will change over time, so look past that and chat to me, even if we don’t hit it off, I am sure, I will be able to make you laugh which is the most important thing, enjoying the people we meet because, we are all fascinating and have a story to tell. I also believe that you get out, what you put in and I put in 110 percent into everything I do. I am a die hard romantic and believe in spoiling the lady in my life with flowers, wine, walks in the country or along the beach, those special txt’s that let her know I am thinking of her during the day, but most of all making sure she knows that she is the NUMBER ONE PERSON in my LIFE!! I hope to talk to lots of people and make some good friends along the way, and hopefully find the "ONE" so don't be shy, talk to me, laugh with me because I have loads of jokes to tell and then the rest is up to fate. Even if you don’t think I am your type!! say hello anyway because you never quite know Hope to hear from you soon….